Prevention is All about the Doctor-Patient Relationship!
by Erika T Schwartz MD on 24/08/09 at 4:24 pm
After more than thirty years of practicing medicine, significant personal media exposure and being an avid listener of those who deliver the care and those who debate it, I wonder what exactly is wrong with our country. We are the leading industrialized nation in the world. Or are we? We boast the best standard of living, yet we have fallen behind in all health care parameters except spending.
A few nights ago I watched the CNBC program Round Table on Health Care and it was mostly more rhetoric and pundits listening to themselves talk. Unfortunately that is about all you get these days in the media when speaking of health care reform. One exception at this round table was Michael Milken. Among doctors and politicians he told the truth: It’s All About Prevention.
Health care as we now practice it is never going to really help the millions of Americans who are obese, who smoke, who drink and don’t take care of themselves. Lack of Prevention will only help the drug companies, insurance company trusts, surgical suppliers and technological testing companies make more money at the public’s expense.
It’s all about prevention, but how can you even begin to address prevention when the real implementers of prevention aren’t even part of the discussion? I’m referring to the doctor-patient relationship which ultimately makes or breaks the entire system. Remember Dr. Welby? Remember when doctors were beloved and patients were respected and cared for? Those were the days when the cost of healthcare was not prohibitive. In those days genomics and MRIs were scarce but good will and health were abundant. What changed?
Medical training in the US is funded by a combination of federal, state, endowments and special interest (primarily drug company) monies.
The Indoctrination of Doctors Causes Alienation from Patients
To become a doctor you have to work extremely hard for four years, then a few more years to train to be a clinician and specialist. You work non-stop, rarely sleep, eat junk foods and just try to survive. When you have completed this insane amount of training you are faced with a sad state of affairs. You have a pile of debt and work options are often decided on how much money you can make to catch up. Remember that at this point you are at least 30 years old.
While you were training to be a doctor something very important happened. A paradigm shift took place in your brain. By the time you finish your training you no longer see the world from your original perspective of saving the world. While you weren’t sleeping and diligently trying to be the best student and resident in your program, the indoctrination from the special interest groups who were paying for your education was going on full force.
The result: gradually you became a prescription drug pusher, a product utilizer, a physician who will send every patient for a myriad of senseless and intimidating tests, surgical procedures and the ubiquitous hospital stay. Within 10 years from starting medical school you become a robot in the service of special interests. I know it, I lived it and I watched all my friends live it also. I speak from a position of deep understanding, knowledge and experience. The outcome is often devastating. While many physicians do not fall prey to this exact sequence of events, there are far too many who do. Fully trained doctors no longer see patients as human beings.
Malpractice threats, the business and politics of medicine have only served to rob too many a doctor of his/her most powerful healing tool, their humanity and have permanently changed the interaction with the patient. The patient is another symptom or disease, a nuisance, someone to protect yourself from, to get rid of as fast as possible until the entire profession becomes a mere conveyor belt of human parts. Bedside manner, listening to the patient and caring are not on the medical school curricula. Medical training isn’t focused on encouraging physicians to become primary care practitioners, internists focused on preventing disease and maximizing health. There is no course in medical school on doctor-patient relationships, patient advocacy, compassion or learning how to listen to your patients.
I wonder why? Certainly the outcome is scientifically and common sense proven to be better when the doctor and patient work together and trust each other. It certainly is a lot less expensive to listen than to do lots of testing and write prescriptions for every patient we see…
Didn’t We Become Physicians to Save?
Physicians have a one master; the patient. To serve the patients and no one else, to refuse to be brainwashed and to open our minds and hearts to providing the best care in kindness will save the healthcare system. Didn’t we become physicians to save, after all?
To change the present predicament physicians must focus on keeping the patients healthy, on prevention. This involves learning nutrition to provide nutritional advice, lifestyle and exercise advice as well. And one more thing: physicians must learn to take care of themselves. They must start to address their own diet, exercise, sleep, stress and lifestyle issues to become examples of healthy living and prevention. I bet that approach will help improve the health care system in a heartbeat.
The Patient Must Find the Right Doctor
Now let’s look at the patient for a moment.
When I went into private practice more than 20 years ago, a man came to see me. When I asked him what I could do for him, he said, “How should I know? You are the doctor.” Herein lies the biggest problem the present healthcare system capitalizes on. No one knows how you feel and what goes on inside your body better than you do. No doctor will ever know you better than you know yourself. Until we know that fact, we will not be able to command better health for ourselves, and will run the risk of becoming victims.
If you want to learn please hear me! The doctor has no idea how you feel. The doctor has a lot of information that he/she learned in medical school, training and practice but all that information does not necessarily apply to you. If you don’t explain how you feel and your doctor doesn’t hear you, you will never get the right care. That is an absolute fact. No matter how great the doctor is, if you don’t take responsibility for creating a positive outcome you are at risk. If the doctor doesn’t listen to you and doesn’t pay attention to your complaints, leave. You are better off with no care than with bad, sloppy or uncaring care.
It all goes back to the doctor-patient relationship. Like every other relationship in your life, you must work at it and you cannot ignore it. Your doctor must be your advocate, you two must be philosophically aligned. If you believe in alternative medicine and your doctor doesn’t you are with the wrong doctor. If you want to take bioidentical hormones and your doctor tells you they are a marketing term, don’t argue, change doctors. If you trust conventional medical treatments and your doctor wants to give you supplements and herbal remedies leave. If you are on the same page with your doctor you’re heading in the right direction.
Life is to be lived outside the confines of the health care system. The right doctor will understand that, help you stay healthy and live your life without fear or doubt. If most of us doctors and patients heed this advice we will implement the health care reform we need in this country and set an example for the world to follow.
That is when we can say the US is the leading industrialized country in the world.



















































Linden Malki
Oct 13th, 2009
There’s another side–my husband changed from a doctor who was very good medically but not so good with courtesy, etc., to a doctor who had a great bedside manner–who missed a diagnosis of recurrent lymphoma and lost four months of possible treatment–and gave him an antibiotic that set off a really bad string of problems. Both my husband and I have been overmedicated by doctors who do have too much faith in the meds and not enough respect for side effects. One even told my son that he doesn’t read the PDR on meds he prescribes. The trick to getting decent treatment is to find the doctor who knows what you really need and how to “work the system” to get if for you.
BOB HOFFPAUIR
Oct 12th, 2009
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH. THIS HITS THE “NAIL ON THE HEAD” FOR ME IN MY PERSONAL LIFE (5XCABG / MI), AS I CONSTANTLY
DISAGREE/FIGHT/PLEAD WITH MY CARDIO TO GIVE THE MINIMUM MEDICATION, THEN INCREASE AS NECESSARY AND COMBINE WITH NATURAL REMIDIES (WHICH I GIVE HIM RESEARCH INFO). ALSO, OUR PRESENT NATIONAL HEALTHCARE ” FIASCO/DEBATE” HAS CONSPICUOUSLY LEFT OUT NATURAL PREVENTION REMEDIES. ONCE AGAIN, THANKS.
Karen Davis
Oct 11th, 2009
In my experience, good doctors are very, very difficult to find! What I have settled for is a doctor who will not immediately and unilaterally discount my feelings, symptoms, questions, or opinions, so that I have room to negotiate. And it is upon ME to read everything I can get my hands on, so that I am not a weak and unwilling participant. I have had to learn this the hard way. In 1999, my beloved husband died of a massive, undiagnosed heart attack at age 43. Yes–he had seen many doctors through the years, each of whom diagnosed “muscular-skeletal problems” although they had EKG results indicating myocardial infarcts (which they never told my husband about). The very night he died, he had seen a triage nurse and the doctor on duty that night, who did not catch the fact that he had a heart attack in progress. And, since the same symptoms were misdiagnosed time after time over years, why should my husband conclude that he was having a heart attack? My own daughter had her first brain surgery 6 yrs. ago at age 10, and then her second surgery a year later, followed by 15 mos. of chemo. Even after she completed chemo, the oncologists insisted that she still take Dapsone, which was used prophalactically, “to prevent PCP pneumonia”. One oncologist left a number of very panicked phone messages about her “abnormal blood tests,” until–one night–I decided to look up the adverse effects of Dapsone. On the web I read about anorexia (which she suffered from) and anemia (which she had). I decided to discontinue the Dapsone, even though the lead oncologist threatened me and tried to frighten me, saying, “Don’t blame us if she winds up with PCP pneumonia!” And–GUESS WHAT??? Her blood tests started showing improvement one week after discontinuing the Dapsone, and they continued to improve until back to normal. Had I not caught on and become curious, my daughter would have suffered from a painful spinal tap–or worse, had they rushed to the diagnosis of aplastic anemia. And my own primary care physician–lauded in one of the local papers for being a “Top Doc”–is usually half-way out the door to her next patient (all the while still talking to me!), before I get a chance to ask even half of the questions on the list I brought. And she still threatens me and pushes the osteoporosis meds, which I have resisted and will continue to resist, in favor of diet, exercise, calcium and D3 supplements. I see the Big Pharm salesmen/women–so neat, clean, and nicely dressed–saunter in and out of their busy office. I know the docs get kickbacks from Big Pharm. I don’t have to be part of it. The moral of this story is–PEOPLE…DO YOUR HOMEWORK!!! You don’t have to be a pawn in the process. If the docs flat out won’t even give you even the slightest credibility, then find another doctor. That may not be so easy in more rural or remote areas, but for many millions of others it may be the only way to survive. Our country has two problems–affordable access and adequate education of our physicians. They can start by encouraging more docs to become primary care/family physicians, subsidizing their education and training, so they do not leave school with crushing debt. And, Big Pharma needs to get the heck out of our med schools! All doctors need MUCH more training in nutrition and in the use of natural remedies (for example, natural, desiccated Thyroid hormones to treat patients with thyroid diseases. We can do SO much better!
marianne thode
Oct 11th, 2009
Amen! Read of one patient who went to 245 docs before his thyroid problem was dx’d. Have probably been to 30 some myself. Everyone needs to research their symptoms if possible and the thyroid is a good place to start.
Sharon Louise
Aug 27th, 2009
I am interested in a questionaire to take to a new doctor I am interviewing for my 90 yr. old mother. Its is very difficult to find a doctor who uses both sides of the fence, so to speak, alternate and traditional. The M.D. I am approaching is also an OD., but I understand the new OD’s, push the drugs as well.
Any guidelines you can give me is very much appreciated.
Thank you,
Sharon Louise
joann
Aug 27th, 2009
Thank you so much for your very insightful article on doctor-patient relationships!
I have always very much believed what you advise to be the only beneficial doctor-patient relationship and have long searched for it; and, now, after reading your article, feel I must, and will, continue to do so. I, also, will be sending your article as a timely reminder and encouragement to my son who is a physician.
I am so happy to hear what you are saying. More of us must hear and be told what your are saying so we may all benefit. Please continue to speak out about this, Dr. Schwartz!